After I was born in 1990, I gave up the trip with an annual salary of 600000 yuan. Not only did I not worry, but the more I played, the more I found myself

This is the 1213rd real person story we told

My name is Yang Lu, a post-90s generation from Xiaogan, Hubei Province, who has a nickname of 66 in the Jianghu, and now lives in the middle of the journey.

Once, I was a person with a strong sense of career, advocating hard work, hard work, progress and making money But when I raise my income to 600000 yuan a year through my own efforts, it is hard to feel the happiness before. Confusion and pain often accompany me, so I made a bold decision to travel naked.

Unexpectedly, the naked speech travel not only did not make me feel anxious, but also cured me and made me feel a long-lost happiness and peace. I began to realize that the meaning of life is not only to earn money, but also to try and experience many beautiful things. After all, life is only once, and some things may never be done again if they are missed.

(Go to Shangri-La with friends in 2022)

In the winter of 1994, I was born in a rural area under Xiaogan City, Hubei Province. In addition to me, my family has a brother who is two years older than me.

Before the sixth grade, my parents had been working as contractors in the northeast, and I followed them and went to primary school there. Because of the policy at that time, I could not study in the local junior high school, so in the second half of the fifth grade, my parents sent me back to my hometown to go to school, and they continued to stay in the northeast to fight.

After returning to the village, my brother and I began to rely on ourselves. Others have parents to take care of their children or at least grandparents to take care of them, but we can only take care of ourselves.

After my brother graduated from junior high school, he went to the town. I still stayed in the village to study primary school. Originally, the two people could take care of each other, but at last I was left alone. My uncle and aunt in the same village will take care of me occasionally, but they do all the laundry, cooking and housework by themselves. We are the "children of other families" praised by other parents.

(In 2021, I took my roommate to Wuhan and went back to my hometown to visit my grandmother)

Frankly speaking, I can understand that parents are not easy. They are also forced by life to take care of us, but in the heart, this is still a scar.

It is because I grew up in such an environment that I am inferiority complex, sensitive and strong.

In the second semester of high school, I proposed to let my mother come to accompany me, but my mother agreed. We rented a house near the school, and my mother helped me cook and wash clothes every day. In the year and a half from the second semester of high school to the third year of high school graduation, although the academic pressure was great, it was the happiest time since I returned to my hometown for so long.

In the college entrance examination of that year, although I did not enter my target university, I did well and was accepted by Wuhan University of Science and Technology. So in 2013, I stepped on the train to Wuhan and started my college life.

College life is rich and colorful, which makes me fall in love with campus life. After graduation, I continue to study in this university. In the second year of graduate students, everyone would go out for internship to increase their internship experience in order to get more points in the future.

The career goal I set for myself is to be a product manager, so during that time, I spent every day in the library reading books and learning relevant knowledge.

(At the School of Computer Science, Wuhan University of Science and Technology)

They all said that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Later, I really felt the meaning of this sentence.

One day before graduation, I was reading at school when I suddenly saw a large Internet company recruiting product managers, so I sent a resume. Before long, the other party called and asked me when I could go to Beijing for an interview.

At that time, they said that it would be better to interview the next day and determine the quota on the third day. Due to the time constraints, I immediately went back to the dormitory to pack up my luggage and bought a hard seat ticket to save money. This is my first time to go to Beijing alone. On the train, my heart was full of mixed feelings, both excited and upset, and I even felt that I was so pathetic.

I don't know what is waiting for me, but I told myself that I must work hard to get this opportunity. From Wuhan to Beijing for more than 10 hours, I didn't even close my eyes. I repeatedly rehearsed the interview process in my heart with various questions prepared by myself.

The next day I went to the interview very smoothly. On my way home, I received the call of being hired. I almost jumped up with excitement. At that moment, I felt that all my efforts were worth it.

(In the second year of graduate student, in the tutor's company)

Taking the offer of the company helped me build up my confidence again. In 2018, I successfully entered the company for internship. In 2019, I officially graduated and started my career.

When I first joined the company, it was p3, and the salary was also the price of cabbage. After half a year, I was promoted to p4, and the salary increased by more than 20%. After a year, I was promoted to p5. The company converted part of my promotion into shares, and added some cash, and the salary increase this time was about 30%.

Maybe I have always been in good order and the work I have done is relatively simple. After a long time here, I feel more and more anxious because I have no sense of achievement and can't see my growth.

(In the second year of working in Beijing, climb Beijing Fragrant Hills with colleagues)

On the one hand, I think I need to go out for exercise, and on the other hand, I think my salary can be increased. After a comprehensive consideration, half a year later, I jumped to the second Internet factory, and my salary increased by 40%.

However, after entering the company, I found that my own culture and the company's culture were not very suitable, so I resigned naked after a few months. Then I began to look for a job again. I happened to encounter the opportunity of a third Internet company. I passed the interview successfully, and my salary increased by more than 10% again.

After two job changes, my annual salary has risen to about 600000.

This job is the last company I stayed in before leaving the workplace. I originally thought that the benefits and benefits here were all right, and the background was good, which should be said to be impeccable. But the result is that there is no empathy in the world, only cold and warm.

After several job changes, I found that the outside world is so cruel. Every company is very competitive. I think the people around me are excellent, but still very competitive.

(Take parents and aunts to Zhuhai for the Qingming Festival holiday in 2021)

The pace of this company is very fast, and the direction of doing things has been changing. There is no certainty, which makes me very difficult to accept. In addition, everyone is rushing to do things, and several departments are rushing to do one thing. I am not a person who likes to compete for work, and what I did at that time is not the field I was good at, so I am a little bit uncomfortable.

The company also requires that the OKR should be ordered every two months, and then it should be resumed after two months. I think the change is too fast here. The time of two months is very tight. It will take one week to order the OKR, and another week to resume. The time left to do the work properly is actually very little. It is normal to increase the shift.

The leadership and management style here is also very different from that before.

When I was in the first big factory, I had a strong executive power and a good working ability. I just had to finish the work I should do every time. But here, the leadership style is more meticulous and has a sense of oppressive education.

Gradually, this made me become more and more insecure, and I began to be afraid of doing things, unlike the drastic things I did before. I slowly found that this rhythm was not suitable for me, and felt an unprecedented pressure and collapse.

(Take parents to Zhuhai to play)

At this time, the body also began to have various problems.

I had a fever at most once in the past year, but now I am very vulnerable to illness, especially fever, and the frequency of going to the hospital is gradually increasing. I also often fall into anxiety and insomnia. I used to be a person who could fall asleep when I fell asleep, but now I can't sleep until two or three o'clock. I used to love to laugh, but now I often feel bad and don't want to talk. It's hard to be happy and I feel too tired.

I also reflect on why I should make myself so tired? What is the meaning of life? What do you really want

(Travel to the Northwest with friends)

One day, I chatted with a friend about my idea of quitting. She recommended me a vlog for volunteer travel and told me that if I really want to quit, I can consider it.

At first glance, I was interested. I thought that traveling was my favorite. Volunteer travel would not cost much, and I could experience many previously curious occupations.

Maybe I just found a perfect excuse to escape. With this impulse, I asked my boss to resign the next day after talking with my friend. So far, I have been doing this high-paying job for three months.

In the past, I have been working hard for one goal after another, but I haven't experienced life well. This time, I want to slow down, look at the different world outside, feel some different life and experience all kinds of new things.

On April 26, 2022, I left Beijing for three years and changed to two high-speed trains. After a whole day's journey, I finally arrived at the first stop of volunteer travel – Pingtan Island, Fuzhou.

(Volunteer travel in Pingtan, go to Xiaobei Village with friends during the holiday)

Pingtan Island is surrounded by mountains and rivers, and also retains many original stone houses and traditional culture. I woke up with the sound of stone songs many mornings here.

The pace of life here is very slow and the work is very simple. The first thing to get up every day is to open the door to welcome the new day, then turn on the computer, process the order, update the accommodation information, and clean the front desk. It will be finished soon, and you can do your own work in the rest of the time.

I am a natural person who likes to be lively and chat. I want to know people from all over the world and listen to a variety of stories. Although the island life here is very simple, it gives me a chance to meet people from all over the world.

Yiyi, I met when I was looking for a volunteer partner. A post-00 girl, although we are quite different in age, is very congenial. She is a friend who has been with me for a long time; Yang Yang, a gentle, beautiful and simple little sister, had a chance to get married; Abu, a super talkative, free and playful elder brother; Brother Chong and his little friend met Yiyi and I while walking in the village. At that time, he asked us where to see Blue Tears. Finally, after introducing him, we also followed them to chase Blue Tears.

(In Dali, my friend came to visit me from Hangzhou)

By the way, my Jianghu nickname 66 was also taken here, because everyone here doesn't need his real name.

In Pingtan, I met a housekeeper. Everyone called her Little Five Sister. She shouted to me and said that you were called Little Five. Then I would call it Six Six. It happened that there was a Lu in the name. In my hometown, it was also a homonym of Six. From then on, Six Six was born.

After work, I will walk around with my friends. We went to Xiaobei Village together. It is a small village where many variety shows are filmed, but it has not been over-developed and still retains idyllic scenery. Surrounded by mountains on three sides and facing water on one side, the stone houses with scattered heights are built along the mountains, and the scenery is pleasant.

Pingtan is close to the sea. We often go to Tannan Bay to see the sea together. The best day to see the sea is when the sun is shining, but I had to rain for nearly a month in Pingtan, but this still can't resist our enthusiasm for the sea, because accompanied by a group of children who love life, it doesn't affect the mood of play.

(Travel to Xinjiang with friends, in the vineyard)

Originally, a group of strange people without intersection played games, sang songs, drank wine and talked about everything together. In short, how to be happy.

I marvel at the multifaceted nature of life, thank the kindness released by these strangers, and even more grateful for my courage at that time.

After spending two months in Pingtan Island, I went to Shangri-La in the second stop. It is said that this is the closest place to heaven. I traveled here in private ranch volunteers.

This pasture is like a paradise described by Tao Yuanming. People living here are calm and happy. The boundless sea of flowers, the green grassland and the sunny days are all beautiful scenery at a glance. There are two Tibetan mastiffs with great strength in the pasture. They usually walk guests. There are also Tibetan pigs that eat until night. They are simple and lovely.

You can also see the scene of Tibetan yaks taking a bath together. Animals here can make friends with them if you like.

(Living in Dali, riding mountain bikes around Erhai with friends)

Occasionally, the store manager would take us to feed cattle, but it was surprising that the food for cattle and sheep was salt. Later, we learned that the purpose of eating salt was to supplement them with trace elements.

There are many mountains and forests in Yunnan. I remember that I went to the mountains with my friends once and wanted to pick mushrooms back to eat. But after searching for more than an hour, I saw many beautiful poisonous mushrooms, and I didn't pick any edible mushrooms. However, adhering to the idea of wild geese crossing and plucking wild flowers, you can take them back if you can't pick mushrooms and wild flowers. You can't waste this trip.

The life of volunteer travel in Shangri-La has come to an end for the time being. Now I have started living in Dali.

In fact, I have been living in Dali for more than three months. At first, I chose Dali only because of the weather and scenery here. I was not infatuated with it. But after I stayed for one or two months, I became more infatuated with it, and the schedule to leave Dali was pushed forward.

(Travel to Xishuangbanna with friends)

Dali has a pleasant climate and picturesque scenery. The clouds in Dali are sometimes like white streamers; Sometimes like children's oil paintings; The beauty is like floating out of Hayao Miyazaki's animation world. It is an excellent enjoyment to wake up and face the Erhai Lake every day to see the towering Cangshan Mountain, the white clouds hanging in the blue sky, and the endless fields.

In Dali, you can not only enjoy the beautiful scenery, but also experience many interesting things. For example, setting up stalls on Renmin Road, chatting with strangers, cycling around Erhai, hiking on the deserted road of Cangshan, climbing tree trunks, stepping on streams, crossing the jungle of thorns, camping in tents on alpine meadows

(After resigning from the last company, I went to Beihai Park with my friends)

Dali's culture is also excellent, free, open and inclusive. Here you can be yourself to your heart's content. No one will judge you at will, but listen and communicate more.

For example, my little sister tomato, who loves freedom, went abroad to earn money, study abroad, travel around the world, and try all kinds of businesses. Her goal is to go to various countries to learn and experience; I also listened to Larry's story in the English corner, a person who loves reading and is proficient in English, Japanese, Russian and French.

At the inn, I also met Kiki, who dreams of traveling around the world. He is confident, cheerful, funny and lovely, always plain, but always full of smiles and energy. Meeting them also made me care less about the matter of appearance. It turns out that a person's beauty does not have to rely on exquisite clothing and exquisite dressing. With a rich heart and a loving attitude towards life, it can also exude a different kind of beauty.

In the period after my naked speech, I became very happy. My friends around me said how I love to laugh so much, but I know that I lost my love of laughter almost half a year ago! Now I have found my original self.

(I went out for a walk with my friend and talked about the problem of facial anxiety, so I took this plain face photo)

Occasionally, there will be unhappy times, such as a rainy day in Pingtan for a month; For example, when I have nothing to do every day, I am extremely relaxed

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